Spirit asks me if I know why I behave the way I do.
At any given time.
On the situation.
Have you designed a specific beahavioral response for any given situation?
I don<t think so.
I respond as seems appropriate, at least for me.
Then different people might respond differently to the same situation?
I guess so.
Perhaps they have learned different coping strategies.
I suspect you know more about this than I do.
Yes. We each began to develop general coping strategies in early childhood,
in response to personal experience. We learned, through practice and
experiment, what behaviours seemed to serve us well in different
situations. These we added to our tool kit of coping skills. With
use they developed into habits that may no longer serve us as well as
they once did.
Then we need to become more flexible in our response.
Yes, and more aware of what triggers our particular responses.
That would require paying attention to our behaviour.
Yes, with intent to adapt to changing circumstance.
Our progress along the path of enlightenment.